Proverbs 23:1-8 (KJV)
When thou sittest to eat
with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:
And put a knife to thy
throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
Be not desirous of his
dainties: for they are deceitful meat.
Labour not to be rich:
cease from thine own wisdom.
Wilt thou set thine eyes
upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly
away as an eagle toward heaven.
Eat thou not the bread
of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
For as he thinketh in
his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with
thee.
The morsel which thou
hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.
It occurs to me that
this passage is not often considered as a whole and that, perhaps because of
that, we miss a great lesson presented within it.
I do not think the
primary lesson is against gluttony.
Nor it is about the
power of positive thinking.
I think what we have
here is one man who has a need and another man who may be able to meet that
need.
Have you noticed that
there are people you are convinced can meet your needs (or wants), if only they
were convinced they ought to meet your needs (or wants)?
What we have in our
passage is some instructions on how to meet with someone who has the means to
help us.
I want to approach this
by noting first
*I. THE RULER
The word means
· To have power
· To have dominion
· To rule or
· To reign
At first blush you might
think of a king or a governor and discount it as not pertaining to you.
Is anyone here expecting
to one day be invited to eat dinner with
· President Trump?
· What about Governor Inslee?
Obviously that isn’t
applicable to very many people and it is therefore not very likely that it is
the correct application for the passage.[3]
But there are occasions
when all of us might sit down to speak with someone who has the power to be a
help to us:
· A banker
· An employer
· An instructor/mentor
It could be a city
councilman whose help we need to secure a permit.
It might be a remote
acquaintance who has the ability to speak on our behalf to someone who has the
ability to help us in our cause.
Don’t discount this
passage too quickly as having no immediate value to you.
*II. THE NEED
The first thing that
comes to our mind when we read this passage is a luxurious spread of food and,
if we give in and eat it, we will be trapped in the snare of the ruler.
But the food can also
serve here as a simple metaphor for any “dainty” we perceive this person to
have.
· It might be money
· It might be influence
· It might be power to sign a paper and make all our problems
disappear
· It might be a promotion or a raise
So my first and second
points are meant merely to ask you to maintain an open mind. You might find
many more ways to apply this than I could imagine as I prepared for the lesson.
*III. THE
COUNSEL
Proverbs 23:1-8 (KJV)
When thou sittest to eat
with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:
And put a knife to thy
throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
Be not desirous of his
dainties: for they are deceitful meat.
Labour not to be rich:
cease from thine own wisdom.
Wilt thou set thine eyes
upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly
away as an eagle toward heaven.
Eat thou not the bread
of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
For as he thinketh in
his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with
thee.
The morsel which thou
hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.
The picture that most
vividly presents in my mind is a meeting with a loan officer. I am going to use
that then as my example.
Five “C”s
A. Consider
Proverbs 23:1 (KJV)
When thou sittest to eat
with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:
Imagine that you are
sitting at the Old Country Buffet, only this one is at the White House.
There is every sort of
food you have ever dreamed of, and some you have never heard of.
They all look good:
· Some of the old favorites
· Some things you would like to try to see if it might be a
new favorite
But you can’t eat them
all.
· Good sense says it would not be healthy
· Good manners says it would not be polite and
· Goodness, you would be sick if you tried
Wisdom says, to consider
it all diligently. Know what is on the table and choose carefully.
Back to the bank –
· There will be options, study them all
· There will be fine print – read it
*B. Curb
Proverbs 23:2-3 (KJV)
And put a knife to thy
throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
Be not desirous of his
dainties: for they are deceitful meat.
I spoke with a friend
not long ago who told me the story about getting his house.
He said he did not think
he could afford a house at all and so had not really even tried. But then an
opportunity presented itself and he was encouraged to at least talk to a
banker.
He’s watching cartoons
with his kids the next morning when there is a commercial for a loan company.
He took that as a sign
from God and called.
And hour later the baker
called him back and said, “We can’t give you what you asked for. We can give
you $20,000 more than you asked for.”
Just because you can get
more does not mean you ought to take more.
Seek the reasonable, not
the ridiculous
*C. Content
Proverbs 23:4 (KJV)
Labour not to be rich:
There are things more
valuable than extravagant gain.
There is something
inherent in us I think that we always want bigger and better than we have.
Once we have what is
bigger and better than what we had, we want what is bigger and better than
that.
A pastor told me once
that he had a neighbor to his church complain to him that he wanted to buy all
the houses in the neighborhood for his church.
He replied, “I don’t
want all the land in the neighborhood. Just the land adjacent to the church.”
And then he jokingly
told me, “Of course, once I have it, new land will be adjacent to the church.”
There are people hard
wired to be growth oriented and they are needful. But they are not everyone.
Be careful not to be
discontent.
*D. Control
Proverbs 23:4-5 (KJV)
….. cease from thine own
wisdom.
Wilt thou set thine eyes
upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly
away as an eagle toward heaven.
Don’t lose your head.
It is easy to lose
control when presented with options you never dreamed could ever be available
to you.
Know what you need and
stop when you get it.
*E.
Conclude
Proverbs 23:7 (KJV)
For as he thinketh in
his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with
thee.
He wants to win too.
Here where that applies
to the banker:
If he can he wants to
give you more than you need because that puts more in his pocket.
His heart isn’t really
with you.
· He might be a nice guy.
· He might be genuinely interested in your success.
But at the end of the
day – he does what he does to win.
If you let him, he’ll
feed you so much dessert you get sick of it before it’s done.
[1] I think a great title
would have been Counsel Climbing the Corporate Ladder but it is a little too
long and it probably limits the extent of the lesson some.
[2] You, of course, know
that this whole scenario is an absolute joke, right? I do not really think
Pastor Caleb should do that and I do not really think we need someone like a
Pro Football player’s money to do the work of the Lord. It is meant as an
illustration.
[3] Since the Bible is
written to apply to us all.
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