Proverbs 16:27-29 (KJV)
An ungodly man diggeth
up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire.
A froward man soweth
strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.
A violent man enticeth
his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good.
Probably the most
important thing any Christian can be is a unifier.
Whether we are speaking
about:
· In his work environment
· In his community
· In his home and especially
· In his church
To be the sort of person
who:
· Builds unity,
· Encourages cooperation
· Strengthens relationships and
· Enlists others
is to be the sort of
person highly esteemed in the New Testament Church.
Jesus called them
peacemakers.
The title for tonight’s
message is “Diggin’ Up Dirt.”
There are some people
who work at building relationships. There are others who take more pleasure in
pulling them apart.
I. AN UNGODLY
MAN
Proverbs 16:27 (KJV)
An ungodly man diggeth
up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire.
A. Who he is
Proverbs 16:27 (KJV)
An ungodly man…
Strong’s Concordance
defines ungodly as
· Without Profit
· Worthless and, the one I want to focus on tonight
Destruction or destructive (as in construction)
· He is the opposite of the builder.
· He is the demolisher.
The most worthless
activity a person can be involved in is tearing down what God is building.
Notice
B. How he operates
Proverbs 16:27 (KJV)
An ungodly man diggeth
up evil…
He digs up evil.
Every good construction
job involves some digging. But this guy isn’t digging in the right places.
I always get interested
whenever I hear about some construction job that gets shut down because it
discovers something underground.
· It might be a historical artifact
· It might be an American Indian burial ground or
· It might be some evidence of a crime
Suddenly the authorities
are called it, the construction is halted and companies go out of business
waiting on some way to resolve the thing that got dug up.
The thing about this
ungodly man is, he went looking for evil.
· He unburies what is buried
· He uncovers what was hidden
· He exposes what should have been left unseen
There is a difference
between digging a hole for a foundation and digging a pit for the foundation to
fall into.
Truthfully there are
things that need to be uncovered and hidden that need to be revealed.
The ungodly man will
uncover,
· What should have been kept quiet
· To those who can only make things worse
· For the sake of causing damage
1 Peter 4:8 (KJV)
And above all things
have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of
sins.
Notice then,
C. What he does
Proverbs 16:27 (KJV)
… and in his lips there
is as a burning fire.
He does his destruction
with his words.
James 3:5-6 (KJV)
Even so the tongue is a
little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little
fire kindleth!
And the tongue is a
fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth
the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire
of hell.
If there has ever been a
subject I pray for, it is that Christians learn to tame their tongues.
So much damage is done
with our words!
The second character in
our message tonight is
II. A FROWARD
MAN
Proverbs 16:28 (KJV)
A froward man soweth
strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.
A. Who he is
Proverbs 16:28 (KJV)
A froward man …
The word forward means
perverse but it has its roots in a word meaning to turn over.
Like a gardener would
turn over a spade of dirt to sow a seed.
It also has to do with:
· Turning yourself around or transforming and
· Turning on someone
B. How he operates
Proverbs 16:28 (KJV)
A froward man soweth
strife: and a whisperer…
Notice that both the
ungodly man and the forward man
· Dig in the dirt and
· Work with the mouth - in this case he is a whisperer
This is the person who
is friendly to your face but whispers terrible things about you behind your
back.
As soon as you turn to
walk away
· He turns from being your friend
· He turns over some piece of dirt so he can sow some sort of
strife
You may not ever know
the forward man is not your true friend. He or she may be so good at
transforming themselves that you would think they are your best friend.
I can tell you a little
bit of a trick to tell whether someone is a friend or not.
Sometimes they will
whisper things about someone lese to you (in confidence). You think this piece
of information they give you reveals their trust in you.
The truth is, if they
will tell you some piece of dirt about someone else, they will tell that same
someone else the dirt they have on you.
Notice
C. What he does
Proverbs 16:28 (KJV)
… separateth chief
friends.
He is a fake friend who
tries to ruin real friendships.
I want to tell you the
best way to
· Not be fooled by the forward person and
· Not be tricked into ruining real friendships
Don’t let anyone, for
any reason; tell you negative things about anyone else.
Stop them in their
tracks. Don’t let them finish their sentence.
If you won’t listen to
their gossip:
· A seed of strife can’t be sown and
· A true friendship can’t be separated and
· A forward man cannot turn on someone else in front of you
It’s not an easy thing
to stop them for at least three reasons:
· It seems rude to stop someone or walk away from them when
they are speaking
· We all want to have friends and their sharing gossip seems
like they are being a friend and besides
· The sin nature in us likes that gossip for ourselves
But the Bible is clear
and our own experience has proven it to be true.
Gossip hurts good
friendships far more than it maintains poor ones.
Finally there is,
III. A VIOLENT
MAN
Proverbs 16:29 (KJV)
A violent man enticeth
his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good.
A. Who he is
Proverbs 16:29 (KJV)
A violent man …
The word violent means,
“to do wrong, physically or ethically.”
To hurt someone’s
character, business, family, finances or possessions is just as wrong as to
hurt their person.
· To lie about someone is just as wrong as
· To attack someone
· To bully someone is as wrong as
· To beat up someone
· To destroy a person’s livelihood is as wrong as
· To take away their life
We tend to think of
violence as something terrible, being shot to death or being beaten by a thug.
But violence is much
more than that.
Several years ago a
missionary friend of mine was the victim of a crime.
Someone broke into his
house while he and his family slept.
Whoever it was stole
several valuable things from them but he did not hurt any of them – none of
them even woke up. They discovered the open window and missing things the next
morning.
The exact words my
friend used to describe this incident.
“We felt so violated.”
Doing wrong, any kind of
wrong is to violate another.
B. How he operates
Proverbs 16:29 (KJV)
A violent man enticeth
his neighbour, …
Proverbs 1:10 (KJV)
My son, if sinners
entice thee, consent thou not.
This word entice means
to deceive, to persuade by deception.
Sinners always want to
get others to do what they do.
Notice that
They go first to their neighbor – someone that might be
close to them
The person most likely
to trick you into sin is someone you already think you are friends with.
· It might be someone who lives on your street
· It might be someone you go to school with
· It might be someone you see almost every day
If someone you have
never met walked up to you and tried to talk you into doing something you have
always thought was wrong, you would probably not give them a chance to talk to
you.
But
· If it is someone you already know
· If it is someone you already like
· If it is someone you want to like you
You might pay attention.
They try to persuade you
In other words, they
don’t just talk to you once.
You might tell them “No”
that first time, but they keep asking you, speaking to you, trying to get you
to go with them.
One of the hardest
things I have to do is convince people that they can’t hang around those who
want them to do wrong.
They will not quit
trying to get you to do wrong with them until you either give in or get away
from them.
They lie to you
Whatever good thing they
tell you will happen if you go with them is all a lie.
There is sometimes
pleasure in sin for a season, but it is always a short season.
And the consequences are
never worth the pleasure.
C. What he does
Proverbs 16:29 (KJV)
… and leadeth him into
the way that is not good.
It seems obvious to me
that if the violent man leads you he will lead you in a way that is not good.
I want to focus on the
fact that he leads you.
He has robbed you of
your liberty.
You are being lead
rather than choosing your own path.
You have become a slave,
a servant of another.
The Bible says
2 Timothy 2:24-26 (KJV)
And the servant of the
Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,
In meekness instructing
those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to
the acknowledging of the truth;
And that they may
recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him
at his will.
Can you see the
difference between being instructed by the meek and being led by the deceiver?
The Bible says the devil
can take those that oppose themselves “captive … at his own will.”
That’s what that person
who talks you into doing no good with him has done – he has taken you captive.
You are doing what he
wants you to do,
· Not what you know is right.
· Not what you want to do
Conclusion
I want to be the kind of
person who builds things for God, don’t you?
· I want to work at unity in the church
· I want to strive to bring peace where there could be strife
· I want to help people do good rather than to lead them into
no good
I want to be godly, not
ungodly.
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